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Dismissing and Silencing Residents Does Not Get My Vote

Have you ever been "shushed?"  I have. I don't like it.

I grew up in a conservative society that did not encourage girls to speak up and have an opinion.

Well ... I grew out of it. And now?  Shushing me, dismissing me or ignoring what I have to say securely earns a person my deepest disrespect. This type of bullying is the style used by small-minded, insecure people who fear any challenge to their point of view. 

This is NOT a characteristic that I want in my city commissioner.  

A commissioner is a public servant.  He or she works for the residents — not the other way around.  After Monday night's City Commission meeting at City Hall, I daresay that there are some pink slips coming.

Here is my story:

I have been approached more than 20 recently to sign a petition "for better city government."

This is how it was pitched, and at no time could the person asking for my signature explain how this referendum could create a better government. In their explaination, it seemed to me that it would be removing the checks and balances that have recently caught some dubious actions in City Hall. It made me think. Who is trying to do this?  What do they have to gain?  So I did some casual research.

It seems that Argus Foundation (a group I usually like because they aren't afraid to speak up against the status quo) was running the referendum campaign.  But - get this - it was being financed by one of the sitting commissioners out of his own pocket!

The funding went to hire people to gather signatures so the referendum could be placed on the November ballot without the rest of the commissioners taking a vote on the idea. This referendum would make that possiblity go away in the future.

As people heard about these 'purchased and misled' signatures and the agenda being pushed forward, a diverse group of citizens put their heads together to come up with a different option featuring an elected mayor. Their idea tried to address the real need for leadership in our city while at the same time giving neighborhoods true representation.  

It was a good alternative and was introduced by Commissioner Paul Caragiulo Monday so it could be an option for voters on the November ballot.

After waiting in City Hall for more than four hours to speak (about 25 of us had signed up to let the commissioners know our perspective), the referendum was introduced and Commissioner Terry Turner (the very same one who paid uneducated people to gather signatures from uneducated voters on a mis-represented referendum that would support his personal agenda) made a motion that he did not have enough time to read the proposal and it should be tabled until late August.

In effect, he silenced all who were waiting to give their opinion and curtailed any chance for this option to be presented to the majority of voters in November because of legal issues and required time. By shutting this down, Commissioner Turner silenced public input regarding an option that differed from his.

This was bullying at its best.  Bullying of his very own bosses... the residents of Sarasota.  

I hope that every resident becomes registered to vote. We traditionally had an extremely low voter turn out in March. This one will be important.

The Bully's seat on the commission is up for grabs. I want to vote for someone who listens to ALL the city residents — not just the ones who are furthering his agenda.

It is time for ALL city residents to take back their city.

City Hall needs to feel the effect of the real majority — not just the vocal minority that has created dysfunction.

We want the same thing: a healthy and prosperous Sarasota for all.

Editor's Note: The author is a communications professional and is a partner of City Commission candidate Richard Dorfman.

Lori Swindell

1:22 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Thank you for your research. So many of us take for granted that these officials are doing the right thing and working for the people, as they should be, without question.
I will do what I can to spread the word about Mr. Turner's self serving work ethics!

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Dan Lobeck

4:15 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

It's been my experience that Mr. Dorfman, the writer's "partner", who is running for City Commission against Mr. Turner (and hence the reason for her posting), has a much more "bullying" personality than Mr. Turner could ever have. And he is to be congratulated on stopping Mr. Caragiulo's "Strong Mayor" Charter amendment from being fast-tracked onto the ballot after just being revealed and added to the agenda that day, to the benefit of the special few arrayed in the audience to pressure the Commission into approving it. Indeed, although Mr. Turner has been very open about his support for his Charter amendment, Mr. Caragiulo refuses to say who authored and is behind his.

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jeri cushman

11:34 am on Thursday, July 19, 2012

It appears Mr Lobeck thinks women who are partners to men with opinions, can not think for themselves.. I resent his reasoning!. Is your wife a shadow to you or does she have her own opinions?.. It does not matter who you think is a bully, what matters is that the public be allowed to speak and decisions are made from facts, public input and what truly is best for our community.

Suzette Jones

5:06 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

From your statements, Mr. Loebeck, it is apparent that you don't know me well. Yes, Dorfman comes on very strong. I met him at a fundraiser when he ran for the District 1 seat. I did not leave a donation (and he stills teases me about it today) because I got the same impression. The difference here is that I have been proven wrong. I jumped to the conclusion that Dorfman would not listen when, in fact, he does it better than most. He is not afraid of differing opinions, he carefully considers all perspectives -THEN he comes out strong. Believe me, Mr. Dorfman has heard his share of my complaints if I feel 'shushed' by him. Mr. Turner on the other hand has proven that he is not open to a differing opinion - won't even listen to the people waiting to speak. The elected Mayor (NOT Strong Mayor! That is divisive propaganda) option would have had the same chance as the Turner's referendum to be reviewed by the voting public.

All these words: 'fast-track & 'Strong Mayor' keep our beautiful city stuck in dysfunction. When you spoke at City Hall regarding water and sewer fees (residential vs 'developer' as you put it) you used some of the same divisive language. It is not Us vs Them. This is the dysfunction that MUST stop. There is always more than one perspective. It is important to hear them. I would be happy to share the perspectives of some of my clients - small business owners and others - and how these fees affect them and in turn, affect the area residents.

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Valerie Dorr

6:35 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Regardless of Ms. Jones' relationship to Mr. Dorfman, there are larger issues being discussed. Mr Turner, the only commissioner who voted NOT to fire Bartolotta has consistently opposed the current City Clerk and was the sole vote against her appointment. Now he claims that the structure of government is the problem. Our structure works fine. The prior City Clerk served alongside many City Managers until his retirement. We didn't start having issues with conflict between charter officials until Mr. Bartolotta arrived. It isn't difficult to connect the dots.

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RB

11:33 am on Thursday, July 19, 2012

"Our structure works fine."

Valerie, then why the efforts you are defending?

RB

10:21 am on Thursday, July 19, 2012

Mr. Dorfman has admitted to going on radio programs and advancing issues without even looking into them... being embarrassed later to find out that his strongly expressed comments against others were totally off-base! That is enough for me to discount his posturing before the commissioners. With an eye to the March election, he will be taking advantage of these opportunities regularly. I notice that he boasts that he will join a "tag team" with Paul Caraguilo if he survives the election -- I think such collusion between commissioners is a violation of sunshine! Turner has had concerns with the structure since he took office, I find his approach consistent and rather straightforward, letting us know where he stands. That is much more comfortable than the dreadful indecision and flopping coming from commissioners who do not seem to know what is going on, much less have a reasoned opinion of their own about decisions before them. Valerie, how long have you been here? Rancor and rage have been the tone between clerk and manager since the days of McClellan and he taught Billy all of his dirty tricks while sitting at his knee. Not the nice guy he appears to many, Billy is perversely motivated to control city hall and he quit to make a political attack, switching from being a public servant who only could manipulate subtly to attempting to be a political master, Seeing former high-level city employees involved in the elected mayor effort shows that old suspicions were correct.

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jeri cushman

11:37 am on Thursday, July 19, 2012

who is RB and why does he/she not have to sign their full name.. i believe that was a requirment of posting..

Charles Schelle

12:44 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

Jeri, it is up to each user for commenting to choose a screen name and they're free to use whatever they come up with.

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Misty Smeltzer

6:53 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

Comment from RB...."Mr. Dorfman has admitted to going on radio programs and advancing issues without even looking into them... being embarrassed later to find out that his strongly expressed comments against others were totally off-base!"

Wow - now that is a man with integrity - admits when he has made a mistake and does everything he can to rectify it in the future.

It is important to note that I don't even know the man....I'm just impressed already!

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RB

8:04 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

He admitted it only when confronted, but continues the behavior, unfortunately. Otherwise, if he had learned from his mistakes, I wouldn't have mentioned it.

Suzette Jones

7:10 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

PS: I meant 'vocal minority' in the second to last paragraph. Sheesh. I really need a proof-reader when I'm angry.

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Valerie Dorr

8:24 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

RB. I've been here long enough, longer than Mr. Turner. You are hiding behind your initials, come out and show yourself! The efforts I'm defending are the rights of the public to comment on items on the City Commission agenda and not have those rights squashed by a Commissioner. I do think that an elected Mayor would help improve the current system. I came from a city where there was a City Council, City Manager and an Elected Mayor so I have seen that in action. If you haven't lived anywhere other than Sarasota, then you wouldn't know anything other than the current system.

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RB

8:39 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

"what matters is that the public be allowed to speak and decisions are made from facts, public input and what truly is best for our community"

Precisely Ms. Cushman! Facts are what was missing.

That is why it was tabled by three commissioners. No one had seen the proposal, not commissioners who were being asked to vote about it, not the public -- save, supposedly, the "twenty-five" who were there to demand it be voted upon without anyone else in the city having an opportunity to examine it. Now who do you think the bullies are? How do you think those "twenty-five" could have known what was in a document of that size and complexity that was not submitted for public review until an hour or two before the commission began their meetings for the day? Why should all others be refused an opportunity to address it knowledgeably? You will notice that none of the other one hundred and fifty people in the chambers joined the "twenty-five" in complaining. I agree with Mr. Lobeck and obviously, so did a majority of the commissioners. That proposal will now be considered in the normal fashion, it is not as if it was cast put into a trash can.

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jeri cushman

12:23 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

The facts were not missing ...the commission just refused to listen to them even thou 25 people has signed up to speak..
Has the commission now reviewed the proposal .. what is considered "the normal fashion.".?
Question? Is it accepted procedure for a commissioner to fund the people who collect names on a petition, is this considered ethical?.. particulary when payment is based on each signature they get?
Why not take out vested interest and let both cases with full information be decided by the voters who will live with the results?

I still think it is cowardly to hide behind Initials.. if you have something to say, sign your name..

Suzette Jones

9:42 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

three of the people on the public record who had signed up to speak are three who usually support Mr. Turner - the three neighborhood ladies... or as some call them "the shadow government"

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Suzette Jones

9:44 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

I'd like to know if ANYONE is familiar with the detailed contents of The Turner Amendment that was approved for the ballot because enough signatures were collected (by individuals who were paid per signature collected) on a petition - NOT because there was public discourse about it.

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RB

10:32 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

Ms Jones --

The citizen-initiative that will be put on the November ballot has been available on the Internet for more than two months.

That is where I read it, and you could have also. It is your own fault if you have not, and if you have not, you ought not be criticizing it, nor should you be leading a charge of blind-faith buddies against it who think you have done "research" on it.

Your transparent purpose is to parrot what someone else has told you to say and you have mislead others here, encouraging them to be parroting you. It would be a waste of our time to continue this shallow banter.

Kyle Evans

11:18 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

Wow, strong stuff! I didn't know anything about this controversy except the little I saw in the paper. Generally I disagree with Mr. Lobeck on almost everything but I do respect him. I also know that Ms. Jones is an intelligent person who is not likely to leap before looking. I'm hopeful that the result of all this will be that the citizens of Sarasota will get a chance to decide the issue in a calm and considering manner.
Please don't blog angry!

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Suzette Jones

11:53 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2012

Oh my... I don't think I have ever been accused of 'parroting' anyone or anything. I am assuming that you (RB) are implying that I am saying what Richard Dorfman told me to say. Unfortunately, the fact that we care for each other makes some people think that we don't have two brains - and it is usually the woman who is discounted. Richard did not see my blog until it was published. RD and I do not agree on a number of issues. One thing we do agree on - the residents of Sarasota should be heard... anyone who wants to speak. My blog is my opinion only. Thank you for yours.

And yes, I have read the Turner Amendment. I should have been clearer in my comment, I wondered if anyone who signed the petition had read it.

And Kyle: you are a voice of civilized reason. Thank you for the reminder.

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Charles Schelle

12:04 am on Friday, July 20, 2012

Folks, I realize this is a passionate issue and continue to be. Please refrain from attacks on each other and focus on the issues or I'll have to start deleting comments, shut it down or worse, kick someone off. There's room for everyone in the sandbox.

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Charles Schelle

10:21 am on Friday, July 20, 2012

For more on this issue, read "Viral Video Encouraging Commissioner Turner's Ouster"
http://patch.com/A-wnqK

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Dan Lobeck

10:28 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

Everyone in the know knows that this push for a Strong Mayor is simply a scheme by vested interests, principally in the development industry, and those who seek political advantage by allying with them, to gain greater power by being able to bankroll into office someone with unchecked authority they can then use to advance their agendas. Sadly, this has become something like the Frankenstein monster which will not die, despite repeated rejection at the polls by wide margins.

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RB

11:22 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

Those in the know must continue to identify the players and call the plays, however, to avoid the intended confusion. It is a tedious and onerous task that must be judged necessary by those who do not want to be subjected to a corrupt figure ruling all others. An elected mayor would be bought and paid for -- by contributors who are well known. The "Caragiulo" proposal is reaching farther for control than its three earlier iterations, intended to make massive changes to the city government that would nullify the voices of the voters and taxpayers in their own government. It has many familiar fingerprints upon it. The game is the same, but the pawns on the front line of the board are new.

Dan Lobeck

10:34 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

And as to Ms. Cushman's post, I never suggested that Ms. Jones does not have her own mind -- only that her motivation for advancing Mr. Dorfman's views in this issue may be his candidacy for City Commission.

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Suzette Jones

8:52 am on Saturday, July 21, 2012

Two Notes:
1) While I of course support Mr. Dorfman's candidacy. I respect his mind and his ability to understand complex issues and build consensus. Please re-read my blog. It was entirely written about MY experience on a Monday night at City Hall. (because I was spitting mad)

2) Had the Commission allowed for two public hearings on the ELECTED MAYOR proposal, Mr Loebeck would be able to see that this is a very different proposal than those of years past. This elected Mayor would have NO VOTE! The Commission - who would represent their respective districts would vote. The Mayor would run the city, would lead a city-wide agenda, would build a unified vision and would answer to THE PEOPLE - not to five rotating bosses as the city manager does in the current model.

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